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Dr. Vanessa Prestridge Graf

Therapist · California

Dr. Vanessa Prestridge GrafLMFT

Compassionate therapist for pregnancy and life changes

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  • Experience29 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • SessionsOnline
  • CBT focused
  • Mindfulness methods
  • Psychodynamic lens

About Vanessa

Dr. Vanessa Prestridge Graf is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 29 years in clinical work. She focuses on pregnancy and childbirth-related concerns alongside stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting struggles. Her style blends practical talk with a warm, down-to-earth manner and a touch of humor to help people feel more at ease when they start therapy.

She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people spot and change harmful thought patterns that keep them stuck. Mindfulness practices are introduced to reduce anxiety and depression by shifting attention to what is working. Psychodynamic ideas help uncover how early beliefs from childhood still shape current choices and relationships.

Dr. Graf encourages clients to reframe negative self-talk and build a more affirming inner narrative. Sessions often include identifying unhelpful thoughts, trying new behaviors, and practicing small mindful moments between appointments. The approach is practical and goal oriented while attending to the emotions underneath behavior.

She believes starting therapy takes courage and focuses on creating a safer inner world where people can grow. Over her career she has guided many people through change by helping them revise long-held beliefs and develop healthier patterns.

Clients interested in working on fertility, intimacy, grief, addiction, or family-of-origin concerns will find an emphasis on understanding past influences and building new ways of coping. The therapist works collaboratively to set clear, realistic steps for progress.

How her approaches translate to online work

Dr. Graf draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice thoughts that feed anxiety or low mood and then try new ways of thinking and acting. CBT is hands-on and works well for worries, stress, insomnia, and many pregnancy-related anxieties. Mindfulness Therapy is used to slow down racing thoughts and build short practices that reduce reactivity and improve focus during challenging periods.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. She will talk with the client about goals, try a few methods, and adjust the plan together so the work fits each person’s needs and preferences. The first weeks often include practical skill building and checking what feels most useful.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Many people appreciate virtual care because it can fit into busy days, shorten travel time, and make it easier to keep appointments around work, medical visits, or childcare. Online sessions can also allow brief check-ins when a quick problem-solving moment is needed.

License and NPI

  • LMFT California · No. 35314
  • LMFT Colorado · No. MFT.0000569

NPI1982771127

As shown on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorder

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

29+ years

Credentials

California, Colorado

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Dr. Graf help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting concerns, as well as pregnancy and childbirth-related issues and fertility questions.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

The style is practical and down-to-earth, with clear talk, some humor, and an emphasis on changing unhelpful thoughts and patterns.

What experience does she bring?

Dr. Graf has 29 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of emotional and relational issues.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with credentials listed as CA LMFT and CO LMFT.

Does Dr. Graf work in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to therapist availability.

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