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Dilnia Horton

Therapist / counsellor · United Kingdom

Dilnia HortonBACP

Compassionate counsellor for relationship and family concerns

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  • Experience13 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Kurdish
  • SessionsOnline
  • Relationship support
  • Parenting guidance
  • Eating concerns

About Dilnia

Dilnia Horton is a counsellor who helps people facing relationship strains, family tensions, eating concerns and parenting challenges. She offers a calm, non-judgemental space where clients can talk through painful feelings and figure out practical next steps.

With 13 years of experience and registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), she brings steady support to people during stressful transitions. Dilnia listens for what matters most and helps clients name patterns that keep them stuck.

Her approach combines several therapies so conversations stay focused and useful. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thoughts, Emotionally-Focused Therapy to look at attachment and feelings, and Mindfulness to build simple coping skills. Psychodynamic ideas also inform longer-standing patterns that affect relationships.

Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented, with space for reflection. Clients can expect to work on clearer communication, better boundaries, and more stable self-esteem. Practical strategies and small experiments between sessions are common parts of the work.

Dilnia speaks English and Kurdish and works from the United Kingdom. She recognises that starting therapy takes courage and aims to make that first step easier by offering steady, plainspoken support.

How these approaches work for online therapy

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on feelings and attachment. It helps people understand emotional patterns in relationships and practice clearer, safer ways of responding to loved ones. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviours that keep problems going, and uses short experiments to test new ways of thinking and acting. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce stress and increase calm between sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. Sessions can mix techniques so conversations stay practical and relevant to everyday life.

Confirm the session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific options. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy routine, for example by saving travel time, allowing shorter check-ins when needed, or letting people join from a quieter place. The therapist will also discuss how to use home practice tasks between meetings to support steady progress.

Professional registration

  • BACP United Kingdom · No. 337697

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsEating disordersParenting issues

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English, Kurdish

Frequently asked questions

What issues does this counsellor help with?

She supports people with relationship problems, family conflict, eating concerns, parenting stress and self-esteem difficulties, as well as related issues such as abandonment, attachment and body image.

What is her counselling style like?

She keeps sessions conversational and practical, combining talking, reflection and simple exercises to work on communication, boundaries and coping skills.

How much experience does she have?

She has 13 years of professional experience working with a range of relationship and family concerns in the United Kingdom.

What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time and works with people based in the United Kingdom.

How are fees and sessions arranged?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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